Hell on earth? That’s living in your trauma

 



Being born into a catholic family, I attended catholic schools. My childhood was filled with imagery of heaven and hell. Jesus and miracles. Good and bad, sins and sinners. I really enjoyed the vivid imagery and stories. It really felt like there was a rich history and it had all the answers. That’s until I reached the age when I started to question everything. Then I found the holes. The gaps, the questions that had no answers.


When I asked the questions I was given made up answers. No one to,d me that they just didn’t know. I saw through this and the world changed. There were no answers. I spent the next 3 decades looking for answers. I looked everywhere. I asked the Muslims, the Sikh’s, the Hindus, the Buddhist’s, all with the same result. No one had an answer to my questions.


It wasn’t until in my mid-40s, I began to heal the relationship with my soul. Then the answers started to come. Answers to all my questions, who I was, why I was here. Why we are all here and what we’re supposed to do with it all. Wow! There are answers. These answers have taken countless lifetimes to arrive at. Not just this one life, countless.


You see my trauma kept me from the truth. This has been the way here for thousands of years. We have reached a point in our evolution where we are ready to open ourselves to the truths of the universe. It’s not that there were not answers. It’s more that we just weren’t ready or wiling to face them. These vehicles were there to prepare us, to prepare the way for us. The answers are there for all of us to access, we don’t need anyone telling us the answers anymore. 


If you, like me, want the answers. What we have to do is clear out the trauma, take a good honest look at ourselves, step off the hamster wheel, break free from the bs control systems and ask our souls. Our souls have a direct line to our history, a direct line to god. God has been generous with the answers. Ask and he answers. God keeps it simple, life is simple. The truth is out there.


Heaven on earth? That’s healing your trauma.


#selflove #selfcare #selfdevelopment #ambition #goals #mentalhealthawareness #emotionalintelligence 


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